「あなた、この子がどんなに勉強を頑張っても褒めなかったでしょう。ちょっとでも失敗したら、『こんなこともできないなんて、バカだ』と叱って育ててきたでしょう」
そう聞いたら、その通りだと。自分が優秀な人は、息子のやることがいちいち気に障るわけです。その上、できない人間の気持ちが理解ができない。だから、すぐに「バカだ」、「どうしてできないんだ」という類いの言葉を発してしまうんです。
子供のほうも、どんなに頑張っても、良い成績をとっても褒めてもらえなければ、勉強をしてもちっとも楽しくありません。小さい時からずっと「負け犬」精神を刷り込まれてしまったら、もう学習意欲も萎え切ってしまいます。
両親共に教師という家庭でも、多くの場合子育てはうまくいっていませんでした。
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